Choosing to live with a mate or partner is a commitment to that person, a joining of two independent beings because they are more together than they are apart. Handfastings are made “for as long as love shall last” because even though a couple may stay together for the rest of their lives, they also may not, and both choices are honourable. This rite sends them off on a joint adventure, with as much joy and passion as possible!And if they should someday decide to part, a ceremony of handparting will allow them to do so with honour and goodwill.